Saying Good-Bye: Pet Loss and Children
Silver Sands Veterinary Center Saying Good-Bye Pet Loss and Children The Human-Animal Bond Series DH DeForge, VMD A child's loss of their first pet is one of the most significant moments in a young person's life. How the child understands and copes with the loss can change how they perceive a multitude of problems in their lives. Dr. Leo Buscaglia writes in his famous book about life and death for children: The Fall of Freddie the Leaf the following: "Freddie the Leaf landed on a clump of snow. It somehow felt soft and even warm. In this new position he was more comfortable than he had ever been. He closed his eyes and fell asleep. He did not know that Spring would follow Winter and that the snow would melt into water. He did not know that what appeared to be his useless dried self would join with the water and serve to make the tree stronger. Most of all, he did not know that there, asleep in the tree and the ground, were already plans for new leaves in the Spring....